Self-Criticism & Shame

Self-Compassion Break

Talk to yourself like you would a friend.

Self-Compassion Break

What it is

Self-Compassion Break is a short Kristin Neff practice comprising three core elements: Mindfulness, Common Humanity, and Self-Kindness.

Why it works

Self-criticism triggers threat-defense physiology (cortisol and adrenaline). Self-compassion activates the caregiving system (oxytocin and safety signals), producing greater resilience and growth than self-attack:

Interactive Shift

Self-Compassion Shift

Unhelpful Cognitive LoopPunitive Self-Attack

I messed up so I deserve to feel terrible and beat myself up.

Practicing with Camic

Camic guides you through the 3 steps of a self-compassion break whenever you notice self-judgment.

Applied in real situations

Sources

Neff, K.D. (2003). Self-compassion: An alternative conceptualization of a healthy attitude toward oneself. Self and Identity, 2(2), 85–101. Neff, K.D., & Germer, C.K. (2013). A pilot study and randomized controlled trial of the Mindful Self-Compassion program. Journal of Clinical Psychology, 69(1), 28–44.